Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records



  • This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

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    • I love you Selena 🤍✨

    • SelenaGomezVEVO I just found this song. Your very talented and I find some comfort in this song. To love hard is a Mental illness so they want us to believe. I think loving hard is loving all the way! Thank you for this beautiful song.

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    • 🥰🥰🥰

    • 🖤🖤🖤

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    • ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  • i love you Selena

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  • For people who still want Jelena back they made this emoji especially for you 💁‍♀️ 💩

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  • When we’re finally realizing Selena is a slugger in her songs

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  • Te amo selena gomez eres la mejor💕😪

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  • I love you in my ♥ Selena..

    Hussey ShantaHussey Shanta3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • This hits me hard :(

    dynfrncisdynfrncis3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • This is such a sad song about love. It's okay to be alone if they treated you like you were invisible. The way to never be heartbroken is to love yourself and your family. That's all the love you really need. (Okay MAYBE you can get a boyfriend if you want more love, but your family will be by your side as long as they can :))

    Mia GreenlyMia Greenly4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • When celebrities and music artists are catfish. Guaranteed MTV trying to cover it up and a part of the Google and TH-vision conspiracies...

    Reaper's ENDReaper's END5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • This is for justin bieber HONESTLY YOU HAVE TO AGREE. like the comment if you agree 😐

    Shakira NiyonizeyeShakira Niyonizeye5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Selena is so kind she has a good heart with good intentions and i dont get why she gets alot of hate. Jealous haters!

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  • Vamos por esos 300 millones amigos💖👑

    Polo Jacobo LeyvaPolo Jacobo Leyva6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Essa música foi para Justin biber

  • Eso mamonaaaaa ! ❤️

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  • The dislikes are probably Bieber fans..

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  • What a voice, inspirational art

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  • Te amooo seelelenannanananananannanannana💚💚💚🤗🤗😂🤗😂🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🥵🤗🤗🤗😔😘☺️😁☺️😁☺️

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  • 💚💚💚💚🤗

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  • Himno Nacional Del Amor Propio 😍💚

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  • Shawn/Sean is an Asshole!!! They are all Thieves!!! I despise Anyone by that name!!! They Do Not get Anything!!!

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  • I love this song 😔

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  • Aqui estou eu chorando mais uma vez

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  • Wowww

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  • Always to be single then to be with boy and and being cheated on hangouts

    Katie BuckleyKatie Buckley11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Am I the only one listening to all of Selena Gomez songs right now?!

    Haniya RehanHaniya Rehan11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • I am just here to see if her comment will have more than 1million likes.

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  • Selediosa ❤️💯💥💣

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  • ❤️💞❤️💞💞❤️

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  • We love u selena! ♥️🤟🏻

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  • Casi 7 millones de likes.. 😍😘

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  • 300 millones falta poco vamos selenators

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  • 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😥😥😥

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  • Eres la mejor y única te amo mu áaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa😚😘😙😍 apesar de la cuarentena😷😷

    Jose RamirezJose Ramirez12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • You didn’t loose him he lost you

    CHEETAH QUEENCHEETAH QUEEN13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • For all the people saying that Selena needs to get over Justin, she is. She isn't saying that she wants him back. She is saying goodbye to this chapter and moving on. It's done. This is the last song about Justin. "and now this chapter is closed and done" " and now it's goodbye it's goodbye for us"

    Maneet SinghManeet Singh13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Awesome song! 💜😊

    Vicki GrantVicki Grant13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • This song in three pain strength and happiness

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  • myinspiration

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  • Selena, you shouldn't cry for him, it's not worth it, you have to make yourself respect and be worth it; he is worthless and sooner or later he will regret having lost you; And that's where you will tell him that you don't love him, and that you are worth it and unlike him it is too late for that.

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  • This song was shot in iPhone 11 pro ! .

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  • 300 milhões

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  • Deep 😭

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  • 슬프당

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  • I relate so much to this song 😂

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  • I love you ❤️

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  • Nice song 😍🎶😅

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  • Awesome I love this song

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  • Love Yourself - JB

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  • I love both her acting/interpretation and this song's lyrics, it's so touching and powerful, it gave me chills

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  • To my ex: In just a month, you replaced our more than 3 years together 🙄

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  • my new favourite song!

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  • This song is so touching and true. You are a role model to me Selena gomez. I'm only 13 but you inspire me

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  • Selena

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  • Selen

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  • And now the chapter is close and done and justin choose nokia over iphone if you know what I mean

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  • 00:13 Seems like she was being called by someone from behind!! 😅

    Prakriti GaurPrakriti Gaurวันที่ผ่านมา
    • I think she tried to portrate someone who's being disturbed by traumas from the past, or couldn't stop thinking about this someone who messed up with her life, so she still feels like hearing to that persons voice, It can be for fear, or like the lyrics says, she's only trying to get her shit together and move on from these memories

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  • الله اكبر الله اكبر والعزة الله (او ماي كاد)

  • I feel so sad because i love you with justin more hope you are ok

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  • Damn she cute!

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  • i’ll date her and i won’t break up i swear to god just add my snap i’m latino btw

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  • The sincerity in her lyrics is legit..... Love you selena you've gone through lots and grown through it.... Now nobody dare to touch... It...

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  • 💓💓💓

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  • 💓💓💓

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  • Realidade cantada!!! Verdadeira inspiração!!!

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Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)