Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
Cause it wasn’t yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
You set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin’
When it wasn’t yours
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it’s showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing
We’d always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
You set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus-
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to hate you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love yeah
To love love yeah
To love yeah
And now the chapter is closed and done
And now it’s goodbye
It’s goodbye for us
Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records



  • This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

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  • tha fuck 176mio views

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  • I love this young lay lady

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  • Petition for James Corden to kidnap all 1D members and put them back together

  • I am crying and i even never been in love bevor But i am just Feeling with her

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  • Ти си бобър с големи бузи. Имаш празен и прост поглед! Това си ти не друг човек с български корени.

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  • Soo cute❤😻

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  • popularity of this song goes like this 📈📉

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  • Some people accidentally clicked the dislike button cuz they couldn't see through their tears

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  • Same goes for me. My ex just ruined my reputation but it doesn't matter now that I have restored it. Mostly

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  • She is 😍😍😍😍😍 love ❤️

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  • Mi amor sel ¿ alguien en diciembre?

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  • as not fan of yours but a fan of actual fucking music....thank you for writing a real song...not some industry spam

  • For me, this is not like a break up..but its more like my cousins lol

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  • Julia Michael's 😍

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  • This so is so beautiful i hear it all the time❤❤

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  • Your songs are always inspired me 😊❤️❤️ Selena 😍♥️ to love you

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  • I am a big fans from you! And i love you very much Selena Gomez! 😍😘❤💕💋

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  • At times when you're hurting people will say "one step at a time". Only they don't realize it's feels like walking on broken glass.

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  • Random person scrolling through the comments go away and pay attention to the song

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  • Good always comes out of bad.

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  • I LOVE U

  • "You set fire to my purpose, and I let it burn You got off on the hurting, when I wasn't yours" What I felt when he ended our 6 year shit show. He influenced me to my past alcoholism, but I got out of that by will and thinking "wtf am I doing to myself?"

  • Maravilhosa

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  • sad

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  • That's why I prefer music and lyrics in expressing my feelings than talking it directly. Cheer up baby.

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  • All those dislikes is by Haily making many accounts

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  • You Promised the world and I fell for it,,,,

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    • Fell

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  • T qifsha motren o Justin Bieber

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  • Yes, ma'am. And, I will know what I never have had, and, will stand fine on me, loving how awesome I am, and, I will still love, but, even better, because, there isn't anything hating any, but, teaching him a new kind of love for each other, but, I will also know a unthinkable love fairy tale, and, I will know what it is to be loved by a man who thinks I am awesome, and, just because he is the puzzle piece that fits snug, like that perfect fit, I only thought I knew, ha! But, ma'am, I can't wait to know. God bless you always.... Daniel

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  • Choose Selena: comment and like Justin: comment

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  • Selena Gomez's entire diary turned to a song.

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  • Muhteşem

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  • Im not even a fan of selena but now i love her i found her more attractive.

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  • Yeahh

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  • You’re a real angel❤️ #StrongGirl

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  • Lovelots

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  • The worst things in your life is to trust someone the most. To love someone the most. Because if you put them for "the most" while they dont put you "on the most" and when that person break your heart. It is really depressing, while you are trying to struggle, battle with yourself to survive, to keep alive. And no one to talk to and you feel that nobody can understand about whats your feeling and you still dont know what was going on and what was the wrong from your relationship. You always having strange question WHY and WHY, and the more you overthinking. The more it hurts you deeply.

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  • Selena, GBU 🖤

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  • My prsenses👸👑.wont so much.But l can never see you🎈,but for me you are very specaili 🌷🌷🌼🌼🌼

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    • l don.t well speak English: (

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  • Wonderful song ❤️ i love selena gomez

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  • It's just so sad that very few people remember her as Alex from The Wizards of Waverly Place. It's great to have you back Selena!

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  • i dnt know how many hrs of my day is consumed by music,every one home knows when i have deadline to meet ,..Dustin Lynch and Luke Bryan will b on repeat... i listen to my gal Sel most when cooking or cleaning or jst in a dancing mood...,ill jam to same old love with my mop.....her being true to herself n us watching her heart break and she ddnt act all robot on the matter she went thru pain like every human ...... i think we went thru it with her n wen she now thot,.u know wat this chapter is over,she healed not only herself......oh God she healed most f us.i cnt believe am at much peace jst frm a song.....and after 4 years am finally free

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  • You can’t just marry someone else in 2 months after breaking up with someone you’ve been in a relationship with for almost a decade. He lost someone who truly and genuinely loved him. She lost someone who never cared. She won. By losing him, she found herself.

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  • It is sad because if u are in in are relatship it sad that u mint brak up with thim

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  • Beautiful song

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  • Who else is excited about SG4?😆😆🥳🥳🥳🥳😻😻😻😻😻🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟

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  • She should sue them for Harassment! That's Narcissistic Abuse.

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  • I can’t get over how beautiful she is 😍

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  • You still worry about Justin B aren't you ......

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  • Can we all take a moment to appreciate the editing skills here? The blending of all the faces full of different emotions is just so smooth and beautiful!

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  • This is a modern fairy tale happy ending😫

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  • you're so strong

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  • Love you Selena ❤️Don t be sad he's not just

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  • Selena my love

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  • I love you SELENA

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  • This is one of my favourite song

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  • Beautiful Selena loved it....I felt the song..😄😊

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  • I think Justin is crying #jelena

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  • I'am so sad :(

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Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)