Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?

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  • Hey everyone - thanks so much for watching this amazing conversation. Thank you to SK-II for making this episode possible! If you enjoyed this piece, be sure to check out SK-II's amazing docu-series #Timelines with Katie Couric ( that addresses pressures women face all around the world. Love you all - thanks for watching and supporting!

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      Deboras SmithDeboras Smith2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
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      nala beansnala beans16 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • Aleesha Khan exactly. Jubilee is partnering with a brand that promotes SELF-HATE. Look it up!

      mplsridahmplsridah22 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • StupidityStarbucks you would say the same if there were no blacks in the video. I guess you can say inclusion works for some, not so much for other.

      mplsridahmplsridah22 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • I completely understand if a woman doesn't want to have children. Not everyone wants that lifestyle. But to get your tubes tied?? It makes absolutely no sense to me. There are so many forms of birth control! Getting your tubes tied should be done to prevent fatalities. Not for pure leisure and convenience. Use condoms or the pill, or the patch, or the ring etc. I'll never understand why a woman would want to shut her body down permanently.

      Brooklynite CBrooklynite C23 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • All the mums are amazing! But, Cassandra mum is the sweetest person ever!!!!!!

    Leslie BlakeLeslie Blake3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Afrika’s voice should replace siri. Way to calm.

    DaChun GDaChun G3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • ok, we got the female perspective now the dads and sons.

    David HernandezDavid Hernandez5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Damn everyone is coming after Annemarie. Chill. Her expressing concern is a completely normal and motherly thing to say to someone making a big decision like that. Regardless of her getting married younger, times and expectations were different then and people in their 20s were at way different places in life. She wasn't being vicious or mean whatsoever.

    Sabrina ApplevongSabrina Applevong7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • 1:27 GAMER TIME

    Collin BabinCollin Babin10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • “children do better when their mom is at home and taking on the traditional role” oh no baby what is you DOIN

    Barbara NegraoBarbara Negrao10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • my heart 🥺🥺 this video was so fulfilling and one of my favorites, the understanding wow

    Creative AmeenaCreative Ameena11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • You can do whatever you wanna do, but Y’all talking like marriage and getting your tubes tied are the same thing, when divorce exists vs. no physically possible way to restore your tubes??? Very different, would definitely wait until 35 for that.

    MJMJ11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • I hate how people nowadays see getting married as a chore. I see being married as being with your best friend 24/7 "getting married young is like leaving the party early" why though? Why can't you stay at the party with your s/o and have an even better time

    ReynaReyna13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • I’ve know for a while that if I have children, they’ll be adopted. I’ve heard stories of women who wanted to get they’re tubes tied but doctors refused to do the operation because they weren’t married, or required permission from their partner. I was very surprised that Afrika found a doctor that would do the procedure when she is in her 20s. Why should anyone have a say about what a women does with her body. It’s like the issue with abortion. Why do people feel they are entitled to an opinion on whether or not a woman gets her tubes tied, or gets an abortion?

    Olivia S.Olivia S.14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • That's why the generation is falling apart and becoming corrupt and sinful, further away from god, they are turning away from gods commandments , it's all about materialistic values rather than spiritual values , society and the media play a huge role in this generation , the reason for this is because of the separation of the church from the state so the traditional /morality/gods laws isnt implemented and mans desires and sins are put forth and practiced ,this is what's causing the fall of society

    ci robci rob14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • “One child just to experience it” it’s as if she’s treating a child like sky diving or flying out of the country 🤨

    lol dei wtflol dei wtf14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • There’s nothing wrong with motherhood. But it should be a facet of femininity rather than the definition of it.

    So MajesticalsSo Majesticals15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Ya and men don't have to live up to a surten awhay that have to look, sit,act,ect

    idk what everidk what ever16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Some women just aren’t meant to be moms

    Madison MandelMadison Mandel17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • I lovedd this episode 🙏🏿😭😭

    U AU A17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • I guess I’m just traditional. I want to get married and have children. It’s something I actually desire. Thinking about that part of my future makes me really happy. I also want to be able to be fully independent. Which is why I’m on the path to becoming a doctor.

    Amy ArcherAmy Archer19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Maybe it’s just me (my opinion) but Annemarie is so weak and old school it’s sad to see but I guess it works for her. I wish she wouldn’t expect that for others tho

    Reggy FieldsReggy Fields21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Afrika's Mom's views of men and "their jobs" is what's dividing men and women today. I think that should also be a show if it's already not one.

    Dexter VlashDexter Vlash21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • For the millionth time, why can we not get a microphone for the announcer?!

    Chris ParsonsChris Parsons22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Chelsie saying Afrika is all knowing was the ultimate statement of me throwing my phone 📱😵

  • Why do people keep commenting about adoption like it’s the same thing. The cognitive dissonance is unbelievable.

    Rayndom NaymeRayndom Naymeวันที่ผ่านมา
  • With corporations taking over, rampant social media, increased materialism and destruction of the environment I just cannot bring a child into the world.

  • I would really like to see what the young women’s lives will be like in their 30s and up; did they get married and have kids orrrrr no?

    Evangeline EdenEvangeline Edenวันที่ผ่านมา
  • outstanding episode, but i really do support taking on the male perspective too!

  • She doesn't know their finances. How does she know he ain't spending money on a condo with a 22 year old gf

    Sammi FrombpSammi Frombpวันที่ผ่านมา
  • This was so beautifully wholesome.

    CassssssyD BaddiiiiiieCassssssyD Baddiiiiiieวันที่ผ่านมา
  • It really disheartened me to hear some of these mothers say that having children is one of the most important things about being a woman :(.

    Karlie StarrKarlie Starrวันที่ผ่านมา
  • "What do you know when you're 25" EXACTLY!! So why are you forcing something down your child's throat that takes HUGE responsibility when you barely figured out who you are yet?.

    Karlie StarrKarlie Starrวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I'm 19 and very old fashioned. My whole life I've wanted a husband and my own family. So much so I would make myself sick thinking I'll never have kids or I'll never find someone that would be willing to help and support me.. Hearing that other women are giving that up really truly breaks my heart. I've now realized my bestfriend of 12 years now has the same goals and views as me. We're getting married this weekend and I can't put in words this peace I have knowing I'm on the road to something I've been working for for so long.

    Kit MoiraKit Moiraวันที่ผ่านมา
  • This comment section is filled with so many great quotes

    •Infinite Hype••Infinite Hype•วันที่ผ่านมา
  • 8:45 I swear everybody has an aunt or uncle like that and I love it

    olivia williamsolivia williamsวันที่ผ่านมา
  • excuse me, you are a white woman with blonde hair, a houswife, wearing pink, and your name is annemarie. stfu

    Natalie ChicaNatalie Chicaวันที่ผ่านมา
  • The younger girls’ opinions on the topic are much more logical and reasonable than a lot of the mother’s. A lot of their ideas are so dated, life should evolve.

    Natalie LenthallNatalie Lenthallวันที่ผ่านมา
  • This may be off-topic but africas voice is so so beautiful. I was just listening while drawing and I was so touched by her soft voice and way of speaking

    Madita EMadita Eวันที่ผ่านมา
  • They chose three women with really flaky careers. Like they're all dancers and bloggers and whatnot, I wish at least one of them had a serious job so that they could have explored the idea of kids vs careers a bit more.

    Eva HaleEva Haleวันที่ผ่านมา
  • afrika’s voice is so soothing it’s amazing

    beatriz cbsbeatriz cbsวันที่ผ่านมา
    • beatriz cbs Thank you! Feel free to check out my demos and guided meditations 😌❤️🙏🏾

      Afrika BakenraAfrika Bakenraวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I love the understanding established by the end... I've been married twice and never married my son's father - THANK GOODNESS! Do these women not know of abuse. It took me 3+ years to realize my son's father was an alcoholic and bi-polar and I was fighting a losing battle and I had to leave. I tried to get him to get help, but he's an adult and makes his own decisions and for 3 months he never got better, and it got scary and I feared for my life and I left with our son over 6 years ago. I have been single ever since. My second husband I was with for almost 10 years, and he kept putting off having kids. I was always ready and he was always ready with an excuse. And I wanted a family with the first guy, but turns out he wanted a life full of material things with no children. So not sure why the moms feel the way they do, but they need to stop and I think a lot of them are jealous because they didn't get to do and be all the things their kids are...

    Beverly GrimmettBeverly Grimmettวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I wish I were able to have such conversation with mom

    Sijaku shinaiSijaku shinaiวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I don’t know why I want give the blonde girl a big hug 💚 idk she made feel like she really needed a hug while she was talking about her life

    Sijaku shinaiSijaku shinaiวันที่ผ่านมา
    • Sijaku shinai Thank you for the kind words, Sijaku!

      Chelsie AndeChelsie Ande14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Can you please do one that is father and son

    Bryce HopkinsBryce Hopkinsวันที่ผ่านมา
  • Finally someone with the same name as me

    afrika cunaafrika cunaวันที่ผ่านมา
  • This white women is not the smartest man on earth

    עמית אביבעמית אביבวันที่ผ่านมา
  • Not nassry

    עמית אביבעמית אביבวันที่ผ่านมา
  • Afrikan American

  • *sniffs* These mothers are so wholesome.

    Katherina LastnameKatherina Lastnameวันที่ผ่านมา
  • Hi. Children cost money. It would be difficult to only have children for ‘the experience’.

    O LoveO Love2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • You can be a woman and never have kids. There are many amazing things about being a woman other than pregnancy.

    O LoveO Love2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • I want to get married but probs not to a guy.. I’d date guys, but I’m more into girls...

    zHumbleSashazzHumbleSashaz2 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • Good thets the point of the new world

      עמית אביבעמית אביבวันที่ผ่านมา
  • *Tries to talk to my mum about this* My Mum: “HAVE U DONE UR HOMEWORK?” Me: no. *walks away and cries in room right now*

    zHumbleSashazzHumbleSashaz2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • *Gets beat at home after video*

    zHumbleSashazzHumbleSashaz2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • They said wife’s were made into existence when slaves were sold and woman were property. But is that why prehistoric Homo~ species had spouses for there whole lives. Elephants have the same mate for their whole lives. Stop being misogynistic, thinking males want a cooking sex slave.

    Tee PolarTee Polar2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • This is my favorite episode from Jubilee.

    Sylvia MoragneSylvia Moragne2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • I felt super uncomfortable when Annemarie was "tearing up" trying to guilt Afrika about never wanting children. Just because something is right for you, doesn't mean it's right for everyone else. If your child doesn't want to get married or have children, you should support their decision rather than put them down for it. Saying you had a child or someone else should at least have a child for the "experience" isn't a good excuse. You have to have a certain mental and financial preparedness. Also did she really say "what do you know when you're 25?"??? All these moms got married when they were less than 25!

    Avery WrightAvery Wright2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • chelsea looks exactly like emma duval from scream lmao

    Oni MarshallOni Marshall2 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • Oni Marshall omg I totally see it! I’ve never heard that comparison....

      Chelsie AndeChelsie Ande14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา
  • Afrika's face at i think 9:56 had me dying

    Karisma EppsKarisma Epps2 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • Karisma Epps 😂😩😅🙈

      Afrika BakenraAfrika Bakenraวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I honestly respect every single woman on this video. Everyone comes from different places, different traditions and different thougts but this moms love and respet their daugthers and it shows. Great video.

    vianny esquivelvianny esquivel2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • this was very good, and im glad you have sk-11 sponsor very good and respectable brand

    Rosa SutterRosa Sutter2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • I agree with everything the lady in pink said.

    Macy ThomasMacy Thomas2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Angela KelleyAngela Kelley2 วันที่ผ่านมา
    • Angela Kelley Lol thank you 😂❤️

      Afrika BakenraAfrika Bakenraวันที่ผ่านมา
  • I think having your tubes tied is less impactful than having a kid. You can adopt, but if you keep a child you can't abandon it

    Alli SwatsenbargAlli Swatsenbarg2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • You can become a parent without producing a child with your own body

    Haley ObremskiHaley Obremski2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • "what do you know at 25?" EXCUSE ME. you all literally got married or had children by 25. Why is 25 a good age to decide to have kids, but 25 isn't a good age to decide you DONT want kids????????? Y'all becoming a grandparent isn't the most important thing. and you have other children who could possibly have kids, chill

    Kenzie MKenzie M2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • I've met too many elderly patients who haven't had kids, their spouse has died and they're allllllllllll alone in their houses, noone would know if they died. no thanks x

    Something EdgySomething Edgy2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • you cant force someone to go on a tradition route but you should educate your children why and how things were done back in the day. Men AND Women!

    aattoo hassanaattoo hassan2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • 15:08-15:15 I LOVE!!

    Its GenevaIts Geneva2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • A part of this discussion is really....disappointing. So much "carrying and bring life is so important/special." As a woman with PCOS I can't help thinking of all the people who so desperately want to do this but cannot. Is their life or their life/love less important/special? I think about those who chose to adopt. Is their life/love less important/special because they didn't BIRTH their children? There are so many ways to be a mother/parent that does not involve birthing another human from your body

    M CJM CJ2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • I never wanted children and got pregnant at 30. It shocked me just how much I loved and still love being a Mum. It's so individual, we can't choose or judge other women for their choices. I definitely copped a heap of flack for not wanting children beforehand. Individual choices should be supported.

    Elena WilliamsElena Williams2 วันที่ผ่านมา
  • Wtf happened to flat earthers vs scientists?

    Homestuck TVHomestuck TV2 วันที่ผ่านมา
Mothers vs Daughters: Is Marriage Necessary?